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November 10th, 2010 | 
Author: I have some Heart Gems to share with you today. People are using these Arrows to “know” a. whether they are with the right person or not. b. To repair their relationships c. to know what went wrong with the last relationship and d. to know what they PERSONALLY need to work on to “BE” ready for LOVE.
H-Harness A man needs to be able to harness his energy, his resources, like a sail harnessing the power of the wind.
He needs to harness his sexual energies and masculinity in such a way that it harnesses the woman’s energy. When one harnesses a horse for example: It’s used to GUIDE him.
G: Ground: A man needs to be grounded in who he is. His authentic Self. He also needs to learn how to ground the woman he loves in such a way that she feels safe and nurtured.
E: Express We want men who can express their love and affection to us the way WE need and want to be loved. If you find it difficult to say: I love you. or give generous compliments to your woman…you need some coaching in this area to free yourself up.
M: Mobilize: A man who truly wants to be respected and adored by his woman should be able to Mobilize and Sustain himself. This means that he can be decisive, take action, make and keep promises. There is no bigger turn-off than a man who makes repeated promises and never takes action or constantly changes his mind. Likewise: Women complain that men need to take more initiative to choosing fun things/places to go on a date.
S: Sense: Women love men who are sensitive. Let me explain this: We want our men to be sensitive to us, and not to “everything”. We want men to use their senses: sight, sound, smell, taste, and gut senses to be powerful with us. Women never want men who CRY LOUDER than them at the movies. Be a senser….look for clues as to what your woman is really trying to communicate to you.
This material is part of “Straight to the Heart-5 Love Arrows to Bliss” a new TeleCourse starting at the end of Nov by Susan Bradley RN and Leela Francis. All parts are copyrighted and if you want more info on our FREE Preview Call Tues Nov. 29th at 6:30p PST-send us an email at LovingUniversity@cs.com
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I have been always motivated by love. It’s what I live for…the deepest most meaningful emotion is LOVE!
I hope that you can relate because when you watch this video of Al’s acknowledgment of his love to me and how it changes our lives….you WILL want to find a love of your own or deepen the relationship you are already in.
Al, wanted his birthday party to be more than a typical party. He wanted it to be a celebration of our love and partnership. It’s his support and love every day as the foundation of my life and mine of his that makes everything better. Al’s dad passed away on Monday night. Yes it was sad and we are celebrating his 98.5 years on the planet earth. Al’s dad was married to his mom for 71 years and just before she passed away at age 91 he said: I don’t want to let her go. Al said: Dad, you’ve had 71 years of marriage. Paul replied: I WANT MORE!
While going through his dad’s things he found a card his mother had sent his dad about being his SOULMATE. Wow! the words were so powerful. We’ll post a photo of the card later. For now…we hope that you will share our tender moment and that it will inspire you to WANT MORE. RIP Paul Segal. We love you.Al’s moving love letter to Susan on You Tube
Never date a jealous person. Trust me, you don’t need a jealous “type” I met a woman yesterday wearing overalls. She was quite attractive. She was going through the airport metal detectors and the screeners said: Why do you wear those when traveling? You know that they are going to set off the machine. She just replied: This is what I wear. I got curious about her and started to make conversation. I said: Those overalls do look good on you, are they your signature? She smiled and replied that she started wearing them a long time ago because she had a jealous boyfriend. She didn’t want to incur his wrath so she had stopped wearing makeup, put on overalls, and even stopped fixing her hair. She said, she’s long lost the boyfriend but just loves the overalls.
That made me think… how many other people change themselves for someone else? And why on earth would ANYONE and I do mean ANYONE date or be in a relationship with someone who was so insecure that they would be detrimentally JEALOUS?
Relationships with Jealous people, never ever ever work out unless the “jealous” person gets some emotional help from a therapist or works with a coach.
Jealous people try to intimidate and control their partners. This puts them and you in a PARENT to CHILD type of relationship. You want and ADULT TO ADULT relationship with anyone you share your time, life, and resources with.
Share your stories about Jealous Lovers here. And if you know of anyone who is dating someone who is overly jealous….help them out and send them to this blog.
What is worse than serial dating? Not dating at all~!
Someone is sitting out there scratching their head and wondering why you two haven’t yet met. So, if you aren’t out there saying: Hi! to someone….anyone….everyday then chances are very slim that you will ever meet the love of your life.
Imagine yourself getting another year older and perhaps not so much wiser with no one to support you, love you, tickle you, have your back, track your life? That’s like having a winning lottery ticket and never cashing it in.
Many people ask me all the time: What can I do to help my son or daughter find a great relationship. Do you want to know what I tell them?
The best thing that you can do is either improve the relationship that you are in by FALLING IN LOVE EVERYDAY…or find a great relationship in the first place.
It pains me to think of how many people are staying at home, watching TV, and not doing anything at all to find Mr. or Ms. Right for them. You may as well marry your T.V. for Jimmenee’s sake.
My partner, Al’s parents were married 71 years before his mother said: I am tired, please just let me go. His father, Paul said: No! I don’t want to let you go. Al said: Dad, you had 71 years, isn’t that enough? Paul responds with tears in his voice: No, I want MORE! I want 72, 73, and 74! I want more.
You can fall in love, everyday…truly you can and then you also can want MORE! More love. More happiness.
Decide today that YOU are going to fall in love. You don’t have to know who it is with unless you are already married.
It only takes a moment to fall in love. It takes more to take it deeper. Stay tuned for 5 tips on taking your relationship deeper. If you are still single…then get out there and do some research on LOVE and meet your mate.
I challenge you to walk up to 5 strangers in the next hour after reading this and use this way to meet them.
” Hello! Can I ask you a question? I am doing a survey for a new book on Falling in and out of Love. Would you answer three quick questions for me? 1. How many times have you fallen out-of-love? 2. Are you in-love now? 3. What was the longest time you ever spent in love with someone?
Thankyou for your answers. Did you tell the truth? (Say this with a smile.) Thankyou! Can we ask you for your e-mail and phone number? Would it be okay to call you sometime if we need to ask three more questions?
Then, wait a few days, call this person up and say: Hi, can I ask you a favor? Please don’t tell my editor, Susan Bradley or I could lose my job. I actually asked you to answer the survey because you are good looking and I am single. Or…I could have asked anyone at the mall the survey questions but I asked you because you are really attractive to me. I hope that’s okay to tell you.
YOU can take it from there after that.
I am personally sponsoring a client and paying Mary Ann $5 for each person she gathers the in-love info from. She will receive $5 pp from me up to $100 just for using the above script and educate me on the results. The money is going to be donated to the fight Lukemia.
Come on and join the fun. Make a difference…you might just meet your soulmate along the way.
Susan Bradley
Flirting is a skill that EVERYONE needs to practice even if you are already in a relationship. You must be flirting with your partner to keep the flames burning.
In my next post, I will be sharing how to overcome the 5 most common Flirting Blockades.
FLIRTING IS FOR ALL AGES. Someone yesterday told me that she was too old to flirt? What? That is crazy, I muttered….I’ve met women who are 80 to 90 who get married again and if they didn’t flirt with their new sweetheart, that wouldn’t have happened.
Flirting keeps you young and playful. Look for my next post on overcoming flirting blockades and believe me…thinking you are too ANYTHING…too old, too shy, too conservative, or whatever is definitely a blockade to let go of and N-O-W!
Flirt On!
Susan
Susan Bradley on TV in San Francisco helping men and women find love in all the RIGHT PLACES!