Hi, I am Susan Bradley. I feel so blessed to be in the most incredibly loving relationship of my life. We look forward to spending the rest of our life together with Ease, Joy, and Passion. Is that something that you want for your life too?
Although I have been loved very well in my life, I’ve also made my own share of mistakes. I’ve written four books on relationships, play the harp, am a registered nurse, and also have a radio show promoting Pet Welfare but those things aren’t as important to me right now as the quality of my life with my PARTNER! Yes, I have a “Real” PARTNER and it’s amazing to notice the difference between when you have someone in your life who has YOUR BACK and someone who DOES NOT!
The reason that I am so excited to talk to you via my blog is because I was thinking…Wow! What if I could have learned all these things years sooner? What if I had someone help me learn the key steps to find the best mate.
I know that I probably wouldn’t have tolerated certain behaviors such as JEALOUSY or CONTROL or Avoidance of Emotional Intimacy if I had had some genuine role model of what was truly possible in love and relationships.
I don’t know about you but, my parents though married over 50 years didn’t have an ideal relationship. It took the final days of my dad’s life before any of us heard them say: I LOVE YOU! or saw them KISS each other with true poignant love in their eyes. WOW! When you go through something like that, it changes what you want your own relationship to be like.
For some years I have been touted as an expert in Flirting, in fact, I have traveled around the world and helped thousands of people how to get out of their own way and open themselves up to the FUN of FLIRTING and Meeting People anywhere.
After my father passed away, I again said, “What do I want for my life?” And I knew deep inside, that I was ready for my true partner in life. I had to go out and use all the techniques that I had been teaching all these years. Once you make up your mind about what you really really want, the world around you races to provide the opportunities that you need to make that happen. This is probably why you happened to find my blog today. You may have made a “quiet” wish to not be alone any more. Perhaps in your heart of hearts you want to find someone who really fills you up like that song: You Fill up my Senses… Someone to share life with on a daily basis and “know” that you are NOT ALONE any more.
Most people choose the wrong people because they are not opening themselves up to really great people or they don’t go anywhere to meet anyone. And if they do go out to social events, they probably don’t know what to say or do to SPARK a new flame of love in your life . NOTE: YOUR LOVE CAN ONLY GROW TO THE EXTENT THAT YOU DO.
I have to be honest with you here. You don’t know me but…if you could see my partner Al and I together in real life then you WOULD GET A REAL FIRST HAND HIT on what is truly possible when you look for and FIND a REAL PARTNER. Guess what? You may have to walk away or even RUN from people who really really don’t fit what you say you really really want in love and life. I hope returning to my blog will help you gain the strength to do just that.
Well, I know that if you join this community of people who want to find and keep REAL LOVE and people who are willing to GROW AND LEARN then we can all help each other reach our goals. I want you to feel free to email me, post comments and questions and share your joys too. Remember it’s always PROGRESS not PERFECTION that is what is most important in reaching your goals.
P.S. I’ve been teaching about Dating, Mating, and Long Term Relating for some years now and written 4 successful books but this blog is different than my main websites…it’s a day to day, week to week support system for YOU and I. I want to learn as much from your successes as you will from everyone else who posts and plays here.
With love,
Susan Bradley RN
